The Lost Generation: Reviving Traditional Igbo Values to Save Our Youth
By Maxwell Menkiti Ngene, PhD
As we face the challenges of modern life, it’s easy to lose sight of the values and traditions that once defined us as a people. For Ibos, one of the most important aspects of our cultural heritage is the emphasis on discipline, hard work, and respect for elders. In recent years, there’s been a noticeable decline in the observance of traditional Ibo values. Many young people are more focused on embracing Western culture and values, often at the expense of their own heritage. This shift has led to a breakdown in discipline and respect for authority, with many children growing up without a strong sense of responsibility or accountability.
Discipline is the foundation upon which all other values are built. Without discipline, it’s impossible to achieve success or make progress in life. In traditional Igbo culture, discipline was instilled in children from a very tender age. Children are taught the importance of hard work, responsibility, dignity, and respect for elders. By reviving or fostering a culture of discipline in our youths, we can help our children develop the skills and character they need to succeed in life. This simply means laying emphasis on discipline and corruption; teaching children the value of hard work, the importance of respecting their elders, and the need to take responsibility for their actions.
One of the most effective ways to teach children discipline is by leading by example. Parents and caregivers should model the behaviour they expect from their children, demonstrating respect, responsibility, and self-discipline. This means being mindful of our own behaviour and making sure we’re setting a good example for our children. Children are good copycats, they easily learn from what they see, so it’s essential that we practice what we preach. By doing so, we can help our children develop a strong sense of morality and values.
Encouraging responsibility is also crucial in fostering discipline in children. This can be achieved by assigning domestic chores and tasks that help them develop a sense of ownership and accountability. By giving children responsibilities, we can help them develop important life skills, such as time management, problem-solving, and self-reliance. For instance, children can be tasked with helping with household chores, caring for younger siblings, or assisting with family businesses. By doing so, we can help them develop a strong work ethic, accountability, and a sense of responsibility.
Practicing positive reinforcement is also essential in fostering discipline in children. This means rewarding good behaviour and accomplishments, using techniques such as praise, stickers, or stars. By acknowledging and rewarding positive behaviour, we can encourage children to continue making good choices and developing good habits. Positive reinforcement can also help build a child’s self-esteem and confidence, which is essential for their emotional and psychological well-being.
In addition to fostering discipline and responsibility, it’s also important to revive traditional Igbo practices and customs. This can include teaching children the Igbo language, sharing stories and legends from Igbo history, and mythology and participating in traditional ceremonies and celebrations. By connecting with our cultural heritage, we can successfully help our children develop a strong sense of identity and pride in their roots. Language is a critical aspect of any culture, and the Ibo language is no exception. By teaching children the Ibo language, we can help them connect with their cultural heritage and develop a deeper understanding of Igbo norms, customs, beliefs, and traditions.
Engaging with our communities and participating in activities that promote Igbo culture and values is also essential. This can include attending traditional ceremonies and celebrations, (marriages, festivals, dancing and sporting competitions) participating in community events, and joining cultural organizations. By connecting with our communities, we can help our children develop a sense of belonging and connection to their rich cultural heritage. Community engagement can also provide opportunities for children to learn from their elders and develop important social skills.
In conclusion, fostering a culture of discipline in our homes and communities is essential for building strong, resilient families and Igbo communities. By reviving traditional Igbo values and practices, we can help our children develop the skills and character they truly need to succeed in life. As we chart our course as a unique group in a multiethnic country like Nigeria, it’s time for us to reclaim our cultural heritage and pass it on to the next generation. By doing so, we will ensure that our children grow up with a strong sense of identity, pride, and purpose.
